Fear of driving over bridges: a ladder you can edit, one span at a time
You do not have to begin with the longest, highest bridge on your route. This example ladder has thirteen steps, from watching a crossing on video to driving the bridge you actually need. Treat it as a draft plan, not a tested program: move steps around and put in your own fear ratings. Start with the first step that feels hard but doable, and repeat it until you have tested your prediction safely, even if some fear remains.
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Driving over bridges
Easiest first. The suggested steps, their order, times and distances, and the fear numbers are illustrative examples, not a tested program. Rate each step yourself from 0 (no fear) to 100 (the most afraid you can imagine), change the wording to fit your life, and add your own steps.
Watch a dashcam video of a car crossing a long bridge, from the approach to the far end.
Rate your fear before, at the highest point, and after. Notice where your body tenses.
Look at online street-level photos of a bridge on your usual route and picture yourself driving across it.
Park where it is legal and watch traffic cross a bridge for 10 minutes.
Start here — uncomfortable but doable
Walk partway across a pedestrian bridge with a solid railing, staying in the middle of the path.
This separates the height from the job of driving. Stay on the path and behind the railing.
Ride across a short, low bridge as a front-seat passenger at a quiet time.
Drive across that short, low bridge with a trusted person in the passenger seat.
Ask them to stay quiet unless you speak first. You make the driving decisions; they are not there to navigate or reassure you.
Drive the short bridge alone, then cross it again on the way back.
Ride over a longer or higher bridge as a passenger, looking out at the view for part of the crossing.
Drive the longer or higher bridge at a quiet time, with your companion beside you.
Drive the longer bridge alone at a quiet time.
Cross the longer bridge alone in whichever lane your route puts you in, even the one nearer the railing.
The step is to stop moving over to avoid a lane, not to change lanes to test yourself. Never change lanes on the span for practice.
Cross a long or high bridge alone on an ordinary trip, in traffic and weather you would normally drive in.
Drive at the speed the limit and conditions allow. Busier traffic is not a goal in itself.
Drive the bridge you actually need or want to cross, alone.
This is an example end point. Replace it with your own bridge, and move any step to where it fits.
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Stay safe while you practice
- Chest pain or discomfort, pain in your jaw, neck, back, arms or shoulders, or feeling weak, light-headed or faint can be signs of a heart attack. If you notice them, stop and call 911 (US).
- If the fear feels too strong to stay with, stop safely and pick an easier step next time. Stopping is not failing.
- If a panic attack starts, get somewhere safe first, then use the free Panic Reset.
- Questions about medication belong with your doctor or prescriber, not with this ladder.
- Safety comes before practice. Each step may be harder to face than the last, but none should ask you to drive in a riskier way. You never have to finish a step if finishing it would make safe driving difficult.
- Only practice if you hold a valid license, the car is roadworthy, and you are currently able to drive safely. If a medical condition, medication, fainting or blackouts, or the after-effects of a crash affect your driving, get a medical or professional assessment before using this ladder.
- Follow the posted speed limits, lane markings and any wind or weather restrictions for the bridge. Skip practice on days when warnings or closures are in place.
- If anxiety makes it hard to drive safely (you feel faint or dizzy, your vision blurs, or you cannot keep your attention on the road), stay in your lane and leave the road at the first safe place after the bridge, then stop driving. Stop on the bridge itself only in a real emergency.
- Never watch videos, do breathing exercises or fill in the log while driving. Do them before you set off or once you are safely parked.
In the US
Sources: About Heart Attack Symptoms, Risk, and Recovery (CDC) · About 988 (988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) · Contact Us (988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline)
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Why driving over bridges can trigger panic
The NHS lists feeling faint and dizziness among the symptoms of a panic attack. It says that although panic attacks are frightening, they are not dangerous, and that most last between 5 and 20 minutes.
During a panic attack, the NHS page on agoraphobia treatment says to try to stay where you are and resist the urge to run to a place of safety, and if you are driving, to pull over and park where it is safe to do so. It also suggests slow, deep breathing and reminding yourself that the frightening thoughts and sensations are a sign of panic and will eventually pass.
The NHS inform phobias self-help guide says people use avoidance because it reduces their anxiety quickly, but that it actually keeps phobias going: if you are never around the source of your fear, you never get the chance to change your beliefs about how dangerous it is. A ladder lets you approach bridges one crossing at a time.
Predictions people make about driving over bridges
Before a step, write down what you expect to happen. Some predictions you might recognize:
- •“I'll panic halfway across with nowhere to stop”
- •“I'll lose control of the wheel and go over the side”
- •“The wind will push the car out of my lane”
- •“The bridge will give way while I am on it”
- •“I'll freeze and stop dead in the middle of traffic”
- •“I'll get dizzy if I catch sight of the drop”
Safety behaviors to watch for around driving over bridges
Things people do to feel safer in the moment. As you move up your ladder, you can try dropping them one at a time. Only drop what anxiety adds; anything that genuinely keeps you or others safe stays:
- 1Driving extra miles to reach a route with no bridges at all
- 2Crossing only in the lane farthest from the railing
- 3Locking your eyes on the car ahead and skipping mirror checks so you never glimpse the water
- 4Asking a passenger to talk nonstop from one end of the span to the other
- 5Crossing well below the speed limit and the flow of traffic, with your foot hovering over the brake
- 6Checking wind and weather forecasts many times before any trip that includes a bridge
- 7Holding your breath from the first expansion joint to the last
Tips for driving over bridges
- Start with bridges that are short and low, such as a span over a small river or a rail line, and cross them at quiet times before you move to anything longer or higher.
- Let your eyes do what they do on any road: the lane ahead, your mirrors, the traffic around you. You do not need to stare at the drop, and you do not need to work hard to avoid seeing it either.
- Plan crossings for ordinary weather. Check once for posted wind warnings or closures, the way you would before any trip, and then stop checking.
- If the height is the hardest part, walking a pedestrian bridge with a solid railing lets you practice the view without also having to drive.
- Before each crossing, write down what you expect to happen, such as "I will have to stop in the middle". Afterwards, write down what actually happened. The gap between the two is what the practice is for.
When to get professional care
This ladder is a self-help tool. Consider professional support in these cases:
- •You regularly add long detours, or skip work, family trips or appointments, to avoid bridges.
- •Your fear began after a crash or a frightening incident on or near a bridge and comes with nightmares or flashbacks. Start with a mental health professional who works with trauma rather than with this ladder.
- •Heights bother you well beyond bridges, and the fear is starting to shrink where you can go.
- •Frightening thoughts about swerving or going over the side keep coming back, or you feel you might act on them. Talk to a mental health professional, and if you are in crisis, in the US call or text 988 now.
- •You have ever actually fainted, blacked out or lost awareness, while driving or elsewhere. Get a medical assessment before you drive or practice.
- •Dizziness, faintness or other symptoms regularly make it hard to control the car. The NHS notes that most panic symptoms can also come from other conditions, so get them checked rather than assuming they are anxiety.
Questions about driving over bridges
What if I panic in the middle of a bridge?
Safe driving comes before finishing the step. If you can still drive safely, keep your attention on the road, avoid sudden moves and carry on to the far end. If the symptoms make it hard to drive safely, leave the road at the first safe place after the bridge and stop: the NHS advice for a panic attack at the wheel is to pull over and park where it is safe to do so. The NHS also notes that most panic attacks last between 5 and 20 minutes, and suggests reminding yourself that the attack will pass. End the practice for the day; stopping is not failing.
Can someone else drive my car across a bridge for me?
On the Mackinac Bridge, yes. The Mackinac Bridge Authority in Michigan runs a driver assistance program: bridge staff will drive your vehicle across, 24 hours a day, for a fee plus the toll. A service like this is a reasonable way to get somewhere you need to be. On your ladder, count it as a passenger step on the real bridge, not as the end point.
Should I avoid looking at the water or the drop?
While you are driving, look where a driver needs to look: the lane, the mirrors and the traffic. Working hard never to see the view is a safety behavior, and NHS inform explains that safety behaviors keep a phobia going because you never learn you could cope without them. Its own example is gripping a friend's arm and avoiding the edge even when there is a barrier. Practice looking at the view as a passenger or on foot instead.
How many times should I cross before moving up?
Repeat a crossing until you have tested your prediction a few times, even if some fear remains. Guides differ here: the NHS inform self-help guide suggests staying with a situation until your anxiety has dropped by at least half, while the inhibitory learning approach described by Craske and colleagues puts the focus on testing what you fear. Crossing the same bridge again on the way back, or on another day, gives you more chances to test what you expect.
- •Transport Services (Mackinac Bridge Authority)
- •Phobias self-help guide (NHS inform)
- •Panic disorder (NHS)
- •Agoraphobia: treatment (NHS)
- •Maximizing exposure therapy: An inhibitory learning approach (Craske et al., 2014) (Behaviour Research and Therapy)
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